This so awkward.. Ppl makes a big deal about adolescence but then the young adulthood is hard as shit too.. I'm constantly trying to find myself.. find what I'm believing in.. how I feel about all the opinions of the world.. And it is really really really hard.. Trying to figure out your sexuality, your religion, your spirituality, your politic views.. Its all exhausting.. I'm sitting here trying to find the right balance of respecting myself, my family, my culture, and my spirituality.. But also trying to form my own opinion on the world and sexism and racism and equality... There's so much things that is so far left or far right that I honestly can't set with it and I'm trying to find that middle ground.. And I don't think most people understand that the reason why I can't 100% agree and stay on the same mindset.. Is Because as I try to grow and find out different views on the situation my view sometimes changes in the process.. Yes I am religious and I am modest and yes I am a feminist.. I'm a hijabi and I'm also queer.. I am sensitive.. I am Black.. I have mental illness and I am trying to recover.. I'm also trying to be happy but most of the time I'm really sad.. My identity is not just one single narrative! it is all these things and more I am so complex and I hate when someone puts me in little boxes and just wants to keep me there.. I'm okay with your labels but just because I fall into a label doesn't mean that I am NOT other labels at the same time because I am a human and I am complex and also please love me... I talk a lot and I have bad grammar and I have all these feelings that I want the world to know.. Also please love me.. I smile to you with tears in my eyes please love me... I want you to know that even if we have different opinions are different views I am NOT (not open to hearing your beautiful options on the world). Me not agreeing has nothing to do about my feelings about you don't be scared to challenge what I say.. don't be scared to disagree with me because I love stimulating conversation and I love you.. And also please love me too.. I am clingy and I am a mess and I'm probably bad for you.. And also please love me
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